One of the lessons 2025 taught me in polygyny is that we must give ourselves grace. None of us had it figured out. We are all a work in progress. Instead of constant complaints, learn to embrace gratitude Gratitude to Allah, Gratitude to your spouse, Even be grateful to your co-wife. This includes being a first wife who learns gratitude for a subsequent wife. It is not easy I agree but so is growth. Polygyny is not perfection, it's a journey of learning, unlearning, healing and intentionally. No

Biblical polygyny isn’t a loophole it’s a legacy. From Abraham to Jacob to David, Scripture records plural marriage not as rebellion, but as part of God’s unfolding covenant with real people in real cultures. The Bible never condemns polygyny; instead, it regulates it, protects women within it, and even uses polygynous families to advance redemptive history. To call unbiblical what God never forbade is to elevate tradition above text. If sola Scriptura means anything, it means letting the Bible